I want to be unique, just like everyone else

The title was taken from a take radio host from GTA V. It was said ironically to point out the fact that being unique, in a roundabout way points back to commonality. “If everyone is unique, no one is.” Is that really true? Is it possible for us to run out of unique people? Are there common things among unique people? Do those common things make them common ? Why do people want to be unique? Is the road less travel really the best?

I don’t know, I’m just asking a lot of questions. Aren’t we all already unique and similar at the same time? Consider this: We’re all the same species yet our mind makes all us different. Even like-minded people are very different. Unique is so broad it should be considered a spectrum. Where the less unique you are, the more “common” you are. Move further away from commonality and you edge every so slightly closer to being unique. I think we can learn a lot from people who considers themselves unique. About two months ago a friend recommended I watch the YouTube video of a filmmaker known as Casey Neistat. I had never heard of him, but to my surprise I had already watched a video of his that had gone viral. It was one in which a man(Casey) visits a german water park at night and is able to use it without attracting any attention. Needless to say I’ve been watching all of his video ever since, and it’s been hard to turn away. He unique in just about every aspect of his being. I’m sure viewers of often like “why did he do that?” His actions commonly go against what most people would do. Recent examples include skating in an airport, sneaking into a hotel to use the pool , and weaving in and out of traffic on skateboard(in NYC). He’s actually blown up as of recently with the release of his new app beme. It’s an app that focuses on the capturing of ephemeral moments and sharing it, similar to snapchat. He recently posted a video on why being unique was a route he chose.

On his vlog he holds a Q and A session. Here’s one of the questions: “ How did you develop your style of vlogging?”

Casey: “I developed my own style of filmmaking because I never knew any other way of doing it. I didn’t have the burden of an education to overcome to create my own style”- I think that statement is powerful in so many ways. How unique would you be if you weren’t told the “right way” way to do things? But also, how hard would life be if had to figure out your own way of doing everything?

He then compares the average vs unique way to make a movie but it can really be used to as a model for accomplishing any task. The average way is shown as the straightest path. This means that the least amount of hurdles are required to accomplish the goal. It is the path most travelled. Maybe it’s the most travelled for a reason. Then there’s the unique path, which entails reaching the goal with the kind of guidance you find while blindfolded. The goal is the same, but the outcome produces entirely different results. For Casey, it meant he was able to develop a style that was admired and copied my many. It’s gained him millions of subscribers and popularity throughout new and old media. In a way his unique style became a new path to follow for someone else. Isn’t that how all average paths start of anyway? For every average path, there had to be at least one person who pioneered it. At the time, they’re considered unique and then everyone adopts it. Now it’s the average path. Maybe, here lies the true value of uniqueness. There is also value in conventional wisdom. I think a balance of these two is the healthiest way to live. We don’t need to reinvent the wheel every time, except when we do its the most unique wheel the world has ever seen.

Written on October 17, 2015